Monday, July 12

21 Days to Positivity



As is often the case with the internet, you read something, and that something leads you to another something, and so on...
Being the "information addict" that I am, this happens to me daily! Seriously, I think I'm one of the few people on the planet who absolutely adores doing research for any and every project, more than any other part of the process.

Today I was reading a blog post about being judgmental. It was on Gretchin Rubin's website, which I highly recommend to everyone. While reading, I saw a post from a woman who'd mentioned a 21 day "fast" from any negative speaking at all. I was intrigued. As anyone who's read my blog since the beginning, you know I had a childhood that was challenging, and ultimately left me with lots of insecurities to overcome and bad habits to break. One of those habits is speaking negatively about myself. I've made an effort recently to at least accept compliments graciously, instead of staring at the person as if they're out of their mind for saying something nice about me, followed by laughingly pointing out how wrong they are.

Anyway, I'm getting off course here.

I googled the pertinent words and sure enough, lots of folks have stepped up to the challenge and reported back some amazing results! This is right up my "be the best you can be" alley, so I'm taking the plunge publically, here on my blog so I have all of you wonderful people to be accountable to, and I hope some of you will come along for the ride.

The premise is simple: You cannot utter any negative language or complaints at all for 21 days. No matter what happens to you, no matter what other people say or do to you, you are not allowed to speak any negative words during those 21 days. That means self-talk, as well as what you say to others. If you catch yourself complaining or saying something negative, start over. Along the way, write down any changes you're experiencing that you feel are related to this project. Feel free to share them on my "Fake It Til You Make It" facebook wall, so we can discuss them, and compare notes. Here's a link.

If you want to join me in a 21 day fast from speaking negatively, please let me know in the comments section. I would love the company! Also, if you know of someone you think would enjoy this, or benefit from it, please send them here and we can get a big group going.
When you complete your 21 days, I will send you a beautiful, personalized "Certificate of Happiness" that can be framed and kept as a reminder to always do your best to avoid negative speaking.

7 comments:

Angie said...

Well, this one would probably just kick my butt...I may give it a shot though!!

You are such an inspiration! I'm gonna check out that blog...

PoohsKitten said...

I am in! This one may kill me, lol! My New Years Resolution this year was, "Get your own house in order." This was my first step in trying not to be judgmental and to stop worrying what others were doing and questioning their choices.

I accept your challenge!

Myrna R. said...

Why did I have to read this post? Sigh. I think I'm gonna hate this. That's my last negative comment for 21 days. What a great way to enforce positivity. I'm in. Thanks.

Michele Chastain said...

Yay! I started this morning and it's been surprising how much I have to monitor my speech! Whoa! LOL

sirenemelusine said...

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you ar welcome
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~*~Eneida~*~ said...

AWESOME! I once did a 7 (YES ONLY 7:o) day positivity exercise where I could only entertain positive thoughts...that was the HARDEST THING I've ever done, but I know it has helped me in my life today...21 days, huh??? LET'S DO IT!!

Michele Chastain said...

OK...I must be honest. I had to start over twice today. LOL -- Today was more challenging than normal...
Anyway, to keep track, I decided that each successful day I will put a "happy" flower (either with a colorful marker or a sticker) on my big wall calendar.